Beatrice says the 12-month wait between application and hearing. "And there were still five judges. Now it's worse. " He lives with his daughter Marta and Il Secolo XIX
"Poor thing. I'm really not condemned to be separated here in Genoa. If I, with a consensus, it took me a year instituted at the first hearing, I dare not think what will happen now, we have only three judges instead of five. " He smiles sweet Beatrice. With the air of one who has finally reached the serenity. Not just because you found "free state" noted on their identity cards. But for having "understood" what is on his way. Following his inclination. Beatrice, 40, artist, now lives with his partner, psychologist. And with his daughter Beatrice who was the former husband, a bank employee.
him, as he took it? "Not good. Indeed, it is bad - admits her slender hands twisting and immaculate - Before getting married, I told him that I was bisexual. He was accepted without problems. But when I asked for the separation, has not begun to understand. To not want. Still less, then, to accept my life with Martha, my companion. His family? ". Would be a sardonic laugh, but melts into a grin: "They know nothing. Officially. At least, they say. Do not ask. "
finished a marriage, the ties remain with the family of the other. Especially if there is a middle child as Beatrice and her ex-husband. "Of course, the child sees the grandparents and relatives of the father - confirms the artist - but they are not asking for anything. Not even her. Officially they do not know. Or maybe not even want to know ...». The girl, however, obviously knows. How
experienced the separation from his father, followed by a companion next to the mother? "The fact that it was little help - says Beatrice - Children have far fewer of us filters. They live all very natural, as it should be. It was precisely her to ask my girlfriend to spend some time with us at night. And my daughter always asked her why not come and live with us forever. Of course, Martha has entered our life on tiptoes. With extreme caution. "
Then it happened to her mother, explaining what was going on and how it changed your life. Not easy. Beatrice does not move, "I said that Martha and her mother loved her." But almost all the other children have parents of different sexes: a father and a mother. Maybe with the addition of new companions, in the case of separate
extended families. It is not easy to digest its diversity. How has protected his daughter? As he tried to avoid injuries? "It's amazing. But she has to select his friends - said Beatrice, in a mixture of tenderness and pride for her daughter this all taken from defending his unusual family from the rest of the world - you are with everyone. But only some of them confides. Since then invites them home. And starts attending with their mothers. It's all very quiet and normal. The societàè much less complex than see the politicians and legislators. Our family has been accepted. We do not put posters, but people are not stupid. He sees and understands. And no problem. " His family home he's made someone? This time the smile of Beatrice is really happy, "Nooo. My partner has been greeted with great naturalness. With joy. As was another daughter. Or another sister. " In short, a happy island. She did not miss anything? "The social recognition. For my daughter. If something happened to me, would also miss Martha. It could be next. "
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